I’ll always and forever be here to back you up.
I am a little emotional this week as my second child is off to her Yr 7 school orientation. I am proud of her and know she will succeed in what ever she wishes to do with her life.
As a mother of four, I know how difficult life can be just trying to keep up with everything. One child has training of some sort, while another has an important project. The same time one is upset with friends at school and the other child has head lice. It is a never ending battle just trying to stay sane.
When my children were younger, I thought parenting was like a cruise down the coast on a Sunday afternoon. Yes there were a few pot holes but overall, as long as they were fed, bathed (all in the bath together many nights) and had a cuddle with mum and mad, it wasn’t too difficult.
As my children are getting older and into the teenage years, I am finding this parenting caper a challenge, an emotional challenge. My children no longer need me physically like they did when they were younger, however they need me emotionally and each child needs me for something different. Every day I try to assess each child, understand what they are feeling and if they actually need me today (a big sign when I think one or two are doing well). It’s the little things with children this age that can develop very quickly into BIG things before you have even finished the first page of a good novel.
My role in their lives for the next few years is to be their voice. My children are strong and healthy kids but they are still often unable to voice what they really think, need or want. So this is where I come in, ready to their voice, to be their words until they tell me to ‘back off’.
I am here to back you up kids, no matter what you have or have not done, I will be there.
I don’t remember signing up for this in the maternity ward…